The wrong way Education to destroy the child’s self-confidence

Too many Chinese parents, the child’s daily needs in every possible way, the arrangements for the children’s spare time learning the many projects, music, painting, dance, language, etc.

Parents want their children will have great expectations mood is understandable, but this attempt to take the approach, will produce in their daily lives dependent children in learning to generate passive and negative emotions. This is extremely beneficial to the child’s growth. Child must independently assume responsibility for his life. Over protection of parents of children killed mercilessly creativity. What a child did not do, but learning can never be a genius. On the contrary, if anything from small to long we do for children, adult in the child, in the group will feel nothing, no confidence, no ability to get things done.

If parents do not listen to the child early in life the child to speak, ignoring the child, ignoring the existence of the child, the child will think that this is normal behavior, is the state of normal relations between people, so that children can not build self-esteem. So, if the child not act to respect other people and can not quiet down and listen to people speak, we could then determine, and the children closest to the child usually does not listen attentively to his speech, did not always possible to satisfy his desire, unintentional the child self-esteem damage.

When children do wrong, parents want to get rid of by critics to make the shortcomings of the child, we criticized him as a force of children’s behavior. When this force play in the child’s behavior, that is your criticism for his behavior, the child will move towards the direction you want to develop. Instead, the force of personality to play in the child’s value, that you attack the children as human values, would make the child feel that they have no dignity no value, and gradually lose self-esteem and value of true.

Children of different personalities should be to take a different form of education

In figure out the child’s personality is impatient or patient, parents may wish to prescribe the right medicine for children of different personality to start a different education.

Jipi Qi Such children generally have a clever mind, and the age of the children together, obviously showing the characteristics of agile and flexible, and from the many small partners to the fore. But they have a fatal flaw, it is the lack of endurance. If you do not mind tuning, develop a school is likely to sit still, easily deserting poor health.

Therefore, education of such child, there must be conscious of its mandatory endurance training, endurance exercise training can begin. For example: Every day period of time is specialized in a particular sport. For younger children, running is the preferred way. Jogging over 4 years of basic suited to all healthy children, of course, have to implement specific physical situation according to the child set a specific time and intensity of training, but parents must insist that only perseverance in order to achieve the desired results. There are ways to use children to develop their interest in specific things, distraction is a very vexing problem, a child even clever, but if things do not concentrate, can not have big achievements. Increased attention from its interest in the first start, such as younger children generally like to do games, so parents should seize this time to the child’s psychological Victory, by continuously through the trials, to improve their attention. The final step is to give appropriate incentives, if not done well on something, it is very easy to give up, including playing games, too. Therefore, parents must be based on the actual situation at this time, select the game rather difficult children or housework, and encourage the child, the child goes wrong, try not to blame and attack.

Chronic, these babies do not mind not smart, but more calm temper, actions slower reaction, the relative growth was slightly delayed acute for some. As long as parents can develop the right way, then most of them early on than to show the kind of magical talent of children to grow up better.

Chronic child rarely lost his temper, along with others is also very cordial, but introverted, ineloquent is one of their major flaw. If not properly tuning and guidance, they will faint from the smell of the atmosphere around the exclusion of the breath, and then showed a loner, and even more eccentric tendencies.

Encouragement is the best cure. Like a flower growing, they need should be the warm sunshine, gentle rain, rather than take the lead in the hot sun or storm. Because inward, so these children tend to be more sensitive, unlike the bunny-like cheerful, relatively speaking, to stand against. What do they like in my heart, to the last slowly into a knot, can not be eliminated.

How to improve the speed of the child to do things it? Parents must remember that children do something in command before, we must first clarify the rules for them, and these include the time of the agreement. Allow them to complete in a given period of time given to do, so that they understand that not do a good job on the line, but must be completed within the stipulated time to be qualified.

Encourage the education of such exchanges is an important law of your baby, we all know, with people not only have fun, but also access to knowledge, information and other resources. From small children to adapt to public places, make friends, their future growth and life benefit to the disadvantages.

 

School rules, highlighting the lack of confidence in education

Someone said, “the duties of teachers are ‘taught thousands of million teaching, teaching people seeking truth’; student’s role is to ‘thousands of school million study, to learn to live’, but perhaps this kind of” education “too deep, educators themselves also to no avail, so “learning” a year or so difficult to see results, they still all hair, clothes and all, bag it be more immediate.

Some time ago during the visit to the United States, has twice participated in the activities of local schools can be said that the students hair, clothes are a variety of, the girls painted nails’s not uncommon to wear lipstick, so long as not too exposed breast Back to the thigh or short skirts are fine; refusal “over-exposure” estimates, taking into account young people do not have too strong “sensory stimuli” it.

Childhood is indeed a need for discipline and guidance, but if they always, always, everything is rigid in the various activities within the discipline and required, then the result is: the one hand, to injure the students, not as most people the nature of desire – is sure to be respected, and thus never learn self-control and self-restraint; the other hand, “education” the school of education’s most fundamental task of the most urgent was shelved. Simply put, that is, whether the tube should not control the chaos control. If a quality education in school full upgrade, with a strong self-awareness, self-esteem at the same time have a higher aesthetic vision, but also need it to teach his or her hair, how, how you dress? Tube tube should not be arbitrary, because they do not know how to control. The introduction of the provisions of these ridiculous, just some educators reflect a lack of confidence, lack of confidence.

Second Shaanxi Linzi Zhou Yu, a 13-year-old Ling Ling was the two girls, two more than a month sadistic classmates, a nail puncture, stamp pen, scissors bar, body bloodied, bruised, and students reflect the violence of two students evil already exists, the family should be forced to more affluent students for money for materials, and schools have long been known, but the class teachers and principals have no choice but that there is no good way to control, in education, the Secretary also made it clear that it was not much to do with school relationship.

Appalling atrocities such evil things that happen on campus, as educators, able to tolerate long-term, says nothing to do with school! So how do would be to control, how to do it with the school about it?

Soviet educators Suhomlinski that: the real educators, not only to teach the truth, and teach students to their attitude towards the truth and inspire good things from their inspiration and admiration by the emotional, evil things intolerable for attitude. The problem is, educators, they have no “attitude towards the truth?” There is no “good things are inspired from and admiration?” There is no “intolerable for the attitude of the evil things?” “Educators must first education” phrase has been forgotten is the famous as if prepared for today.

Summary of education in Canada

Canada, Saskatchewan is a simple place, although the city of Saskatoon is the provincial capital, but this is after all a predominantly agricultural province. First came to Saskatchewan, when, I remember I came out with two classmates from school, passing a garden, an old woman very happy to greet us. When you are in a strange city to meet such a thing, you will find that small actions make you feel very warm. Saskatchewan entertainment facilities are backward, it is suitable for reading, though a bit boring. Very quiet here at night, hear is the wind, the trees sound. Also, Saskatchewan’s air is also good, but too dry for that.

Canada, teaching in different ways. Class time, entirely by your own arrangements. You have to network, log the school website, and then selecting a semester. Can in the morning 8:30 class, it can be 19:30 in the class. I have a 4 semester course, basically, only two classes a day, it’s time for less than 3 hours. However, do not think 3 hours a day to complete the course is over. In fact, is not really spend time in the classroom, but their own arrangements. Professor will give you a job, then asked to complete within a week. So you have to arrange time. You have to arrange when to read, when to do homework, when to preview. Here will not teach you in class or not control, I have never met a professor named class. In Canada’s most important is self-discipline, I believe that studying abroad at this point are the same.

In Canada, the University will be based on your future goals, to make arrangements for the general curriculum. For example, I need to learn economics, statistics, accounting, human resources management, mathematics and so on required courses, there are 14 elective. Want to graduate than 4 years you can read, but is that how many credits you repair, you want to graduate you must Xiuman 120 credits, each course is three credits. Resulting in a lot of people even can not read the 5-year graduation, some people such as my students with a dormitory, she two and a half to go. So, to bully people who had finished college, do not come abroad to study. Because this is just a waste of time and youth.

Poor state grants high school students, 1,500 yuan per person per year

Ministry of Finance, Ministry of Education recently issued a document, decided to establish a regular high school students from poor families subsidy policy system, from the fall semester of 2010, the central and local governments jointly set up state grants for the financing of ordinary high school students from poor families in the average funding standard annual 1,500 yuan per student.

Liang Buwei in jointly issued the “on the establishment of high school students from poor families the views of state-funded system,” in that the establishment of high school students from poor families state-funded system is to implement the scientific concept of development, building a socialist harmonious society, an important measure , is the implementation strategy and this strategy, optimize its structure, speed up universal high school education an effective means of improving state funding policies for the system to help students from poor families successfully complete their education, promote equity in education is of great significance.

According to Liang Buwei opinion, China will be in accordance with the “increasing financial investment, a reasonable share of funding, policy direction clear, multiple mixed funding, clear responsibilities of each party,” the basic principles, and establish a government-led, as the main state grants, school fees and other relief To supplement, the active participation of social forces, high school students from poor families subsidy policy system, from the high school system to basically solve the schooling of students from poor families problems.

Starting from the fall semester of 2010, jointly set up the central and local state grants for the financing of ordinary students from poor families in the finance side accounting for about 20% of the total number of ordinary . Ministry of Finance, Ministry of Education, according to students, average cost of living and other factors to determine provincial funding side. Of which: 10% for the eastern region, central region of 20%, the western region of 30%. Can be combined with parts of reality, when determining the appropriate funding to rural areas face in poor areas and ethnic regions.

The average standard of state grants per student subsidy of 1,500 yuan per year, with specific criteria from all over the actual 1000 to 3000 yuan in the range of identification, can be divided into 2 or 3 files. State grants financed by the central and local pro-rata share.

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British Primary Education: Girls better

According to the BBC, Britain has organized the participation of the country’s 11-year-old children showed that a routine examination, one in primary school boys in reading only the level of 7-year-old children. This result means that there are more than 20,000 boys reached the age of 11 can not enter the secondary school level, but at least until 15 years of teaching in secondary schools to keep pace with the rhythm.

It is reported that the standard test results also show that in the primary education stage, the girls better than boys in all areas, including the boy’s traditional strengths of mathematics.

This result can not help but rise to concerns about the education sector, a very young age the boys were “girls better,” the shadow, I am afraid this will make them bear a heavy burden, affect future performance.

Critics say too much emphasis on primary school achievement would interfere with the normal development of boys and forced them to school, high school and college find ways to catch up with girls, which is not conducive to their physical and mental health.

Roehampton University, Dr Richard House, warned the situation is very dangerous, because the boy may therefore feel frustrated, small hold negative attitude towards learning.

Last week’s data also show that in primary school, girls more than boys reading and writing skills, 79% of girls in the level of compliance of writing graduation, and compliance rate of only 64% of boys, men and women different from last year’s 1 percentage point shoot up to 15 percentage points.

Labour government in Britain, the Government has purchased a large number of primary and secondary schools to encourage adventure novel class detection in order to cultivate interest in reading the boys, but the fact that it had little effect. It is worth noting, in the traditional strengths of mathematics and other subjects, the boys no longer obvious advantages, both boys and girls 80% compliance rate.

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From face to face to back to back

The recent emergence of a very popular line of scripts, from the blog to the micro-Bo, from the Forum to sns can be seen everywhere, entitled “Like a relationship, like the ancients,” the scripts, the scripts is so fire may be due to the upcoming Tanabata , of course, I think the reason is that more and more people began to see Duo’s, the modern changes in the relations between the not so simple and even some Fuza, people had so Dian Zhi Jian Shao trust, these in fact lack communication result.
Scientific and technological progress, phone, mobile phones, computers and other communication tools is almost over our world. When you encounter something new you want to share with friends, you can choose to call, send messages, qq, or even writing an email can be these things and tell your friends. The diversity of modern communication, but also led to exchanges between people face to face rapid decline. A common phenomenon is that we prefer, or by email exchange of qq and close colleagues, unwilling to directly face to face to speak up.
Not just in the workplace, face to face between family members began to gradually reduce communication.
I remember the early years, after dinner at home, on a family sitting together, chat, tell jokes, and then each went to bed. Today, the general got home from work, eating dinner, watching television watching TV, playing computer playing computer, the family rarely speak, have their own things to do, usually only a matter of time before said a few words. Communication between family members, the frequency and depth are beginning to gradually become smaller, which leads to changes in the relations between family members are getting cold, misunderstanding arises when.
“My dad coming home, I entered the bedroom, eating homework I have to stay in my room, I am waiting for him to work and then go to school, basically you can not talk the day down.” Such as the strange landlord, tenant-based Life is Xiaobin and reflection between his father, according to the words of Xiaobin “owe respect and ice.” “Speak to them very tired, not to say that less than one.” Impression in Xiaobin, the exchange between him and his father seems to have always been less than three sentences begin “lively” the.

Family education among the most serious problem currently exists, is the lack of communication. Parents always think their children do not listen, do not know the parents of a painstaking, but the child does, he feels his parents can not stand the standpoint of the problem, we know that the command style and tone to speak for itself. In fact, communication between parents and children should be for both sides an equal position. Parents should not win their children the right to speak in communication should be allowed to tell their children enjoy the view, this is effective communication. In a dialogue, the parents have always dominated, deprived of the rights of the child to speak, which will lead to rebellious thoughts in the child, there are worse still, would make a child’s life in the future, do not know how to properly express their views, resulting in feelings of depression.
Of course, communication between parents and children is based on trust, if the parents have been faced with skepticism to a child, then the communication must be a failure. Parents must show as much as possible their sincere willingness to communicate with their children, to let the children of the parents, “all you know, without reserve.”
Scientific and technological advances make communication diversity, we should make full use of a wide range of communication tools that allow communication between parents and children become more efficient, so that parents and children more confidence to be effective in family education .


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Whatever the reason, can not accept

This year’s summer school in Beijing focused on the part of a child off a little special, they were their own parents, “even fool with coax” and taken to Peking University Third Hospital, test chamber to detect children’s intelligence quotient. The report also said that children in the summer, particularly hot IQ tests are generally required to advance a month or longer appointment. Under normal circumstances, the parents certainly would not doubt the intelligence of their children, then in the end so popular then why the IQ test?

According to the school teacher surnamed Guo description: “Because the school is the district focus on school leadership in the school’s ranking in the area very seriously, the teacher Appraising (impact bonuses, etc.) was very strict, class pass rate 100%, excellent rate of more than 30%, and the class average must be maintained in the overall ranking of the first third of the region. and the school provides an IQ below 70 students, evaluation results will not participate in class. So, do not less academic ranking in class after the teacher asked parents are taking advantage of the summer to test the child’s IQ. one hand, can improve the class evaluation, it can also cure the “illness”, the weak link for the children to make up classes . ”

Just a test, they put people into 369 and so on, the focus of school, find good jobs, promotions jobs, have children, emigrating … all by its decision, it changed people’s life trajectories, and even control people’s life and death, it really makes me feel fantastic. The above news IQ test, more is to make me feel very helpless.

Parents and teachers know that no matter how the results of IQ tests, the child’s self-esteem will be a certain degree of damage. If the test results is low, then the child will no doubt depression, doubt yourself, or even get depression, and if test results normal, because the child still challenged by parents and teachers lack the confidence caused. This test, the child is almost no good profits.

Let’s look at the reasons for parents with children IQ test is required because of the teacher, the teachers it is also the pressure forced the school. The school then was forced to the interests of society. Can be said that this IQ test, its starting point is to pursue interests that it is itself a problem. More horror is in this case, the biggest victims – children, but almost no voice, is forced to live. Therefore, this test is an oppression not only for children, parents and teachers the school is subject to the interests of society of oppression.

According to the article reports, China’s Protection of Minors Act, Article stipulates that the state according to characteristics of physical and mental development of minors to give special priority to the protection, safeguard the legitimate rights and interests of minors are not violated. That is, when the children’s interests with the interests of the community, education, conflict of interest when the interests of the child should be given priority. Therefore, from a legal way to run, because the interests of education to conduct IQ tests with children is illegal.

Children of poor academic performance, that is, IQ Questions? IQ is only part of the reason, the key is education. The current medical research showed that children under 4 years old, in the mental development of 50% of the adjustment of space; 4 years -8 years be adjusted to 30%; 8 years old -18 years old 20%, IQ to a large extent both with adjustment space. The achievement of good and bad, including a number of factors, the human brain development is important, but the study habits, interest in learning and so the change can have implications for academic achievement. Can be adjusted with a measured IQ would be affected by many factors of a learning value, which after all are not convincing.

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New Education Watch: respect for teachers is the best Teacher’s Day gifts

Emphasis on education, continue to increase investment in education, promote equity in education, raise their status and treatment, in the whole society to create a good atmosphere of respecting teachers and the atmosphere is an urgent need for education and teachers, this is the best teacher Day gift.

Today is my 25th Teacher’s Day, we are the masters of the festival – the country’s teachers, send the most sincere wishes, wish you all happy holidays and a smooth, healthy and happy.

To express this beautiful blessing, to work quietly on the podium in three feet of a surprise, Qingdao teachers, newspaper early in September this year also launched a special “10 000 flowers thank mentor” public welfare activities, the carnations sent all over the city in primary school. After they received flowers bloom in the smiling faces, we sincerely feel that the whole society and each of us the respect of teachers, it is very important, a little carnations, with a small mind and allows the we both gain a heavy moving.

“Education is the foundation; education plans, teacher-centered” history has proven, teachers, social development and as the driving force for human progress, the role of important and irreplaceable, a country has no future, depends largely on the National attention does not attach importance to education, reflecting the importance of a country does not attach importance to education standards, first look at the social status of teachers. This reminds us, at any time, respect for teachers, emphasis on education, can not be discounted and can not be slack, but should continue to strengthen.

Needless to say, the current, inadequate investment in education, educational resource allocation is not fair, teacher Dai Yu is too low, excessive pressure of work and lack of 依然 存在 Deng shortcomings in some areas are rather serious and as market economies Zhi Xia, teachers respect , there have been moral respect for the material interests of the signs of alienation. Take the annual Teacher’s Day is, what means to celebrate Teacher’s Day, Gift Giving, also troubled many students and parents. This should be vigilant, to some extent, vulgar utilitarian gifts, the stronger the material, then the moral sense of respect for the more light, which is the importance of the teaching serious injury.

September 4, before the arrival of Teacher’s Day this year, Premier Wen Jiabao made a special trip to Beijing to 35, the breath and listened to five lessons a comment made in detail to express the respect for teachers, emphasis on education. For us, the holiday greeting, a blessing, a greeting card, a text message, or natural flowers, are enough to convey season’s greetings, good wishes as respect for teachers, which are condensed. For the relevant government departments, the emphasis on education, continue to increase investment in education, promote equity in education, raise their status and treatment, in the whole society to create a good atmosphere of respecting teachers and the atmosphere, but also education and teachers urgent need, this is the best Teacher’s Day gift.

September 8, Minister of Education Zhou Ji at the fourth National Teacher forums, to give teachers become of the most respected and most enviable job, respect for teachers is undoubtedly a fundamental way to achieve this goal, We hope that the whole community and everyone can start from the self, mind respect for teachers, practice the respect for teachers, for teachers to truly become the most enviable job, and we look forward to that day come soon.

Education: Certificate of seven foreign qualifications can not be certified

Xinhua Beijing on July 19 Xinhua Foreign Ministry of Education, 19, monitoring information network on education published after more than 400 undergraduate legal approved list of foreign cooperation in running schools. This is more than 400 Chinese and foreign cooperation in running schools are bachelor-level Sino-foreign cooperative education institution or project.

This is 2004, the State Council, “Foreign Cooperation in Running Schools” has been promulgated and implemented, the Ministry of Education published the first comprehensive system of foreign cooperation in running schools approved information.

Ministry of Education website information on how to choose Chinese-foreign cooperative education institution or program to make an important reminder six areas:

First, pay attention to the Sino-foreign cooperative education institution attended, or whether the project is through the legal approval, the most important thing is to see whether the school can provide processing departments issued a document agreed to their school. The absence of such license or approval is not foreign cooperation in running schools.

Second, concern about the actual school situation, in particular education quality. For example, student admission standards, the situation of foreign teaching staff, curriculum situation, school environment and conditions. In addition, to understand the employment situation, if necessary, the unit should verify the authenticity of the information.

Third, concern about the school’s enrollment information is consistent with the actual school situation. Study focused on the school site enrollment information, fees and the amount (by the seat of the provincial government approval of foreign cooperation in running schools), enrollment and other school is in line with reality.

Fourth, attention admission standards. According to regulations, the implementation of higher education for academic qualifications, shall be in accordance with the region taking the same batch program. Foreign educational institutions to implement education, degree education, the admission criteria should not be less than the foreign educational institution in its own country’s admission criteria.

5, attention enrollment plan. According to regulations, issued by China’s higher education degree of Sino-foreign cooperative education institution enrollment must be included in the national college entrance program. The implementation of the qualifications of foreign educational institutions, places of education, should also have the state education department the number of approved enrollment plan.

6, concerns the assessment of foreign cooperation in running schools and certification of the situation. Ministry of Education has implemented a foreign cooperation in running schools to assess and strengthen cooperation Banxue certified registered two certification initiatives, Ke By understanding these two aspects, to make more appropriate for school choice.

The reporters also learned that the Ministry of Education Service Center for Scholarly published abroad range of academic degrees and certification, there are seven types of certificates can not be certified:

1, to participate in foreign language training or study other non-formal courses (such as short-term study) obtained a certificate;

Second, training staff, visiting scholars and postdoctoral research experience to prove that;

Third, the country (border) foreign universities or other higher education institutions awarded matriculation certificate;

Fourth, the country (border) foreign non-higher education diploma, title and non-relevant study or research experience certificate of honorary degrees;

5, the relevant administrative departments without the approval of the Chinese government’s educational institutions (the project) presented the country (border) of foreign academic degree certificate or diploma of higher education;

6, through correspondence, distance learning and online education and other non-face learning way to get the country (border) of foreign academic degree certificate or diploma of higher education;

7, country (border) foreign job-skills or vocational qualification certificates.

Education, foreign control Information Network also announced 33 foreign countries more than 10,000 are regular school list