From face to face to back to back
The recent emergence of a very popular line of scripts, from the blog to the micro-Bo, from the Forum to sns can be seen everywhere, entitled “Like a relationship, like the ancients,” the scripts, the scripts is so fire may be due to the upcoming Tanabata , of course, I think the reason is that more and more people began to see Duo’s, the modern changes in the relations between the not so simple and even some Fuza, people had so Dian Zhi Jian Shao trust, these in fact lack communication result.
Scientific and technological progress, phone, mobile phones, computers and other communication tools is almost over our world. When you encounter something new you want to share with friends, you can choose to call, send messages, qq, or even writing an email can be these things and tell your friends. The diversity of modern communication, but also led to exchanges between people face to face rapid decline. A common phenomenon is that we prefer, or by email exchange of qq and close colleagues, unwilling to directly face to face to speak up.
Not just in the workplace, face to face between family members began to gradually reduce communication.
I remember the early years, after dinner at home, on a family sitting together, chat, tell jokes, and then each went to bed. Today, the general got home from work, eating dinner, watching television watching TV, playing computer playing computer, the family rarely speak, have their own things to do, usually only a matter of time before said a few words. Communication between family members, the frequency and depth are beginning to gradually become smaller, which leads to changes in the relations between family members are getting cold, misunderstanding arises when.
“My dad coming home, I entered the bedroom, eating homework I have to stay in my room, I am waiting for him to work and then go to school, basically you can not talk the day down.” Such as the strange landlord, tenant-based Life is Xiaobin and reflection between his father, according to the words of Xiaobin “owe respect and ice.” “Speak to them very tired, not to say that less than one.” Impression in Xiaobin, the exchange between him and his father seems to have always been less than three sentences begin “lively” the.
Family education among the most serious problem currently exists, is the lack of communication. Parents always think their children do not listen, do not know the parents of a painstaking, but the child does, he feels his parents can not stand the standpoint of the problem, we know that the command style and tone to speak for itself. In fact, communication between parents and children should be for both sides an equal position. Parents should not win their children the right to speak in communication should be allowed to tell their children enjoy the view, this is effective communication. In a dialogue, the parents have always dominated, deprived of the rights of the child to speak, which will lead to rebellious thoughts in the child, there are worse still, would make a child’s life in the future, do not know how to properly express their views, resulting in feelings of depression.
Of course, communication between parents and children is based on trust, if the parents have been faced with skepticism to a child, then the communication must be a failure. Parents must show as much as possible their sincere willingness to communicate with their children, to let the children of the parents, “all you know, without reserve.”
Scientific and technological advances make communication diversity, we should make full use of a wide range of communication tools that allow communication between parents and children become more efficient, so that parents and children more confidence to be effective in family education .
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