People there is a characteristic brain activity is only one excited about the same time center, which is usually said, “things can.” When you get excited to do so many things, sexual fantasies also walked out.
During adolescence, many people will have a high degree of sensitivity to sex: to see the contents of a book on gender or television, that somehow they will have the impulse and excitement, the boy could not help even the perineum erection, girls vaginal discharge; see beautiful of the opposite sex, the brain often can not help but freak in there. As a result, some people will think they went bad, his mind changed complex, very sorry for this self-blame.
This is the fault of adolescent “bad.” This is normal during the development of physiological and psychological phenomenon. Human gonads after birth is basically in sleeping state, therefore, will not produce sexual excitement of childhood. Only to puberty, boys and girls of the gonad and gradually began to develop more mature, so in its role, will produce sex hormones, mainly men, male hormones, primarily estrogen women. Under the action of the hormone, human consciousness is generated, it will something of a sexual nature to explore the psychological curiosity. And always have sexual impulses, which is only normal in puberty phenomena.
But by this time the girls girls, whether physical or psychological, are far from mature enough as an adult, through the legal relationship between husband and wife to satisfy their sexual desire, therefore, often produced under the stimulus of association relating to We call it “sexual fantasies.”
As the famous sexologist He rand. Cha Du Lian Kai pointed out, the phenomenon of sexual fantasy is that all of the most common, it is difficult to imagine who would not have this mentality. Sexual fantasies will be accompanied by the appropriate emotional response: or ecstatic or unhappy, which receive some sexual gratification. Sexual fantasies on children enter puberty, it is a normal physiological and psychological phenomenon. However, recognition is a very common sexual fantasy of a normal psychological phenomenon, does not mean that you can wallow in them. Because adolescence is the golden age of man, do the facts is too much.
So, boys and girls in this regard to do three things: First, do not be the sexual fantasies seriously, and sometimes think to think about it, do not blame yourself from this crime, but will make you so indifferent to the sexual fantasies some, it is very important.Second, the usual attention to concentrate on their learning and other colorful activities up. Third, do not touch yellow pornographic books, those books and special rendering of sexual activity between men and women, young people have a strong provocative stimulus.
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