Colleague wang new thirties, but was found to suffer from severe illness, when his son is in the university entrance exam on the eve of nervous review state. Wang’s wife thoughtlessly decided to son blockade this news, reason is not affect his review, because the university entrance exam is a great event, A friend encountered marital problems, she also doesn’t tell yourself is ZhuDou child, because the child will be the final exam, A family ritual activities, grandchildren children had mostly come, because their study very busy; A friend of the family gatherings, several friends of all children didn’t come, because the weekend homework too much… Family so slowly drains.
This kind of thing is sound familiar? Because there are so many things happening around us, but also may occur down. But at the same time, we also hear more and more sigh: why now children don’t know sympathized with parents? Why do they get along with your classmates always have a lot of problems? Now, why children do not know how to care for others? Actually, these are the result of affection drains after it. Because you did not give their experience of affection of opportunity, because you used above the practice directly told them: the most important thing is to learn, to learn, to affection can discard ah. While a forsaketh the sentiments of the children, don’t see how you honor your father and your mother, how can you expect he will be filial to you? No chance to experience friends happy children, how to know the value of friendship?
I cannot help but ask: learning is so important? Important to a person doesn’t have time to feel seven feelings six desires? And without those experience, their learning really will be very successful? A child was asked “what all need not tube, as long as study is good,” so serious a single day content day after day is also very scary? Step back, even if they because centered learning very successful, well, to these children school learning career after one day, they step into society, learning scores are no longer measure their main dimensions, the child still succeed? They want and colleagues, leadership, customer together, can expect these people will also be like when their parents unconditional caress with their general? Even after working with many do not need people, they also want with future spouse and children get along with ah.
So, might as well let children experiencing life with you every moment of: only experienced mop the floor very hard, your child will actively care and sanitation, Only experienced put learn again after cooking a meal of toil, after your child will realize that mom and dad is not easy, Only children with you and take care of elderly parents, your child will be planted in his heart to love seeds… Otherwise, the familiy care for the cost of the so-called present success, has led to a child later life path emotional deletions, that price is not too big?
How China’s sense of family alienation
Colleague wang new thirties, but was found to suffer from severe illness, when his son is in the university entrance exam on the eve of nervous review state. Wang’s wife thoughtlessly decided to son blockade this news, reason is not affect his review, because the university entrance exam is a great event, A friend encountered marital problems, she also doesn’t tell yourself is ZhuDou child, because the child will be the final exam, A family ritual activities, grandchildren children had mostly come, because their study very busy; A friend of the family gatherings, several friends of all children didn’t come, because the weekend homework too much… Family so slowly drains.
This kind of thing is sound familiar? Because there are so many things happening around us, but also may occur down. But at the same time, we also hear more and more sigh: why now children don’t know sympathized with parents? Why do they get along with your classmates always have a lot of problems? Now, why children do not know how to care for others? Actually, these are the result of affection drains after it. Because you did not give their experience of affection of opportunity, because you used above the practice directly told them: the most important thing is to learn, to learn, to affection can discard ah. While a forsaketh the sentiments of the children, don’t see how you honor your father and your mother, how can you expect he will be filial to you? No chance to experience friends happy children, how to know the value of friendship?
I cannot help but ask: learning is so important? Important to a person doesn’t have time to feel seven feelings six desires? And without those experience, their learning really will be very successful? A child was asked “what all need not tube, as long as study is good,” so serious a single day content day after day is also very scary? Step back, even if they because centered learning very successful, well, to these children school learning career after one day, they step into society, learning scores are no longer measure their main dimensions, the child still succeed? They want and colleagues, leadership, customer together, can expect these people will also be like when their parents unconditional caress with their general? Even after working with many do not need people, they also want with future spouse and children get along with ah.
So, might as well let children experiencing life with you every moment of: only experienced mop the floor very hard, your child will actively care and sanitation, Only experienced put learn again after cooking a meal of toil, after your child will realize that mom and dad is not easy, Only children with you and take care of elderly parents, your child will be planted in his heart to love seeds… Otherwise, the familiy care for the cost of the so-called present success, has led to a child later life path emotional deletions, that price is not too big?
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