Family education among the most serious problem currently exists, is the lack of communication. Parents always think their children do not listen, do not know the parents of a painstaking, but the child does, he feels his parents can not stand the standpoint of the problem, we know that the command style and tone to speak for itself. In fact, communication between parents and children should be for both sides an equal position. Parents should not win their children the right to speak in communication should be allowed to tell their children enjoy the view, this is effective communication. In a dialogue, the parents have always dominated, deprived of the rights of the child to speak, which will lead to rebellious thoughts in the child, there are worse still, would make a child’s life in the future, do not know how to properly express their views, resulting in feelings of depression.
Of course, communication between parents and children is based on trust, if the parents have been faced with skepticism to a child, then the communication must be a failure. Parents must show as much as possible their sincere willingness to communicate with their children, to let the children of the parents, “all you know, without reserve.”
Scientific and technological advances make communication diversity, we should make full use of a wide range of communication tools that allow communication between parents and children become more efficient, so that parents and children more confidence to be effective in family education .

According to the school teacher surnamed Guo description: “Because the school is the district focus on school leadership in the school’s ranking in the area very seriously, the teacher Appraising (impact bonuses, etc.) was very strict, class pass rate 100%, excellent rate of more than 30%, and the class average must be maintained in the overall ranking of the first third of the region. and the school provides an IQ below 70 students, evaluation results will not participate in class. So, do not less academic ranking in class after the teacher asked parents are taking advantage of the summer to test the child’s IQ. one hand, can improve the class evaluation, it can also cure the “illness”, the weak link for the children to make up classes . ”

Just a test, they put people into 369 and so on, the focus of school, find good jobs, promotions jobs, have children, emigrating … all by its decision, it changed people’s life trajectories, and even control people’s life and death, it really makes me feel fantastic. The above news IQ test, more is to make me feel very helpless.

Parents and teachers know that no matter how the results of IQ tests, the child’s self-esteem will be a certain degree of damage. If the test results is low, then the child will no doubt depression, doubt yourself, or even get depression, and if test results normal, because the child still challenged by parents and teachers lack the confidence caused. This test, the child is almost no good profits.

Let’s look at the reasons for parents with children IQ test is required because of the teacher, the teachers it is also the pressure forced the school. The school then was forced to the interests of society. Can be said that this IQ test, its starting point is to pursue interests that it is itself a problem. More horror is in this case, the biggest victims – children, but almost no voice, is forced to live. Therefore, this test is an oppression not only for children, parents and teachers the school is subject to the interests of society of oppression.

According to the article reports, China’s Protection of Minors Act, Article stipulates that the state according to characteristics of physical and mental development of minors to give special priority to the protection, safeguard the legitimate rights and interests of minors are not violated. That is, when the children’s interests with the interests of the community, education, conflict of interest when the interests of the child should be given priority. Therefore, from a legal way to run, because the interests of education to conduct IQ tests with children is illegal.

Children of poor academic performance, that is, IQ Questions? IQ is only part of the reason, the key is education. The current medical research showed that children under 4 years old, in the mental development of 50% of the adjustment of space; 4 years -8 years be adjusted to 30%; 8 years old -18 years old 20%, IQ to a large extent both with adjustment space. The achievement of good and bad, including a number of factors, the human brain development is important, but the study habits, interest in learning and so the change can have implications for academic achievement. Can be adjusted with a measured IQ would be affected by many factors of a learning value, which after all are not convincing.

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“The family is create a human character factory”, family environment for children to form character particularly important role. To have a good character kids, parents should give children to create a warm and harmonious home.

1. Family atmosphere:

Harmony, mutual respect, mutual understanding and mutual support of family atmosphere, the character of the children have a positive effect. On the contrary, the parents quarrel, misunderstanding, suspicion or relationship breakdown (parents divorced or deceased parents) of family, juvenile delinquency rate.

2. Family Structure:

Some studies show that children from two generations of families in curiosity, persistence, partner prestige, and human relations and the attitude of labor is better than children from three generations of families.

This is mainly families with three generations of spoiled children and other factors.

3. The status of children in the family:

The special status of child at home, easier for them to form a self-willed, not concern for others, selfishness and other bad behavior. But if a conscious guide correctly, but also enable them to form a respect teachers, care partner, not picky eaters, labor and other good character.

In addition, parents education, occupation, family economic status has some impact on the child character

Today is my 25th Teacher’s Day, we are the masters of the festival – the country’s teachers, send the most sincere wishes, wish you all happy holidays and a smooth, healthy and happy.

To express this beautiful blessing, to work quietly on the podium in three feet of a surprise, Qingdao teachers, newspaper early in September this year also launched a special “10 000 flowers thank mentor” public welfare activities, the carnations sent all over the city in primary school. After they received flowers bloom in the smiling faces, we sincerely feel that the whole society and each of us the respect of teachers, it is very important, a little carnations, with a small mind and allows the we both gain a heavy moving.

“Education is the foundation; education plans, teacher-centered” history has proven, teachers, social development and as the driving force for human progress, the role of important and irreplaceable, a country has no future, depends largely on the National attention does not attach importance to education, reflecting the importance of a country does not attach importance to education standards, first look at the social status of teachers. This reminds us, at any time, respect for teachers, emphasis on education, can not be discounted and can not be slack, but should continue to strengthen.

Needless to say, the current, inadequate investment in education, educational resource allocation is not fair, teacher Dai Yu is too low, excessive pressure of work and lack of 依然 存在 Deng shortcomings in some areas are rather serious and as market economies Zhi Xia, teachers respect , there have been moral respect for the material interests of the signs of alienation. Take the annual Teacher’s Day is, what means to celebrate Teacher’s Day, Gift Giving, also troubled many students and parents. This should be vigilant, to some extent, vulgar utilitarian gifts, the stronger the material, then the moral sense of respect for the more light, which is the importance of the teaching serious injury.

September 4, before the arrival of Teacher’s Day this year, Premier Wen Jiabao made a special trip to Beijing to 35, the breath and listened to five lessons a comment made in detail to express the respect for teachers, emphasis on education. For us, the holiday greeting, a blessing, a greeting card, a text message, or natural flowers, are enough to convey season’s greetings, good wishes as respect for teachers, which are condensed. For the relevant government departments, the emphasis on education, continue to increase investment in education, promote equity in education, raise their status and treatment, in the whole society to create a good atmosphere of respecting teachers and the atmosphere, but also education and teachers urgent need, this is the best Teacher’s Day gift.

September 8, Minister of Education Zhou Ji at the fourth National Teacher forums, to give teachers become of the most respected and most enviable job, respect for teachers is undoubtedly a fundamental way to achieve this goal, We hope that the whole community and everyone can start from the self, mind respect for teachers, practice the respect for teachers, for teachers to truly become the most enviable job, and we look forward to that day come soon.

August 30, published online graduate school, will be “super-hours” dealing with graduate students to drop out. Required, Master’s longest not more than four years of study, the doctoral student a maximum of 8 years.

It is understood that the relevant departments are to report on specific comments to be drop-outs, the students eventually drop out of the decision by the principal of the school session. Students would have objections if they drop out, can appeal.

Although the number of people to be repaying not uncommon, but compared with the total number of graduate schools, the ratio is not high. End of last year’s statistics show that 17,694 people graduate school there; this calculation, to be cleaned up and returned only 1.7% of graduate students.

The school provides at least a year or more school drop-out of graduate school transcripts sent. Repaying the “Super Hours” graduate student initiatives in the lead yesterday in the new shock. Dr new Little Deng said the teacher had informed during the press conference, “This is a lesson, reading would of course make an effort.”

Three students from the University of Farmers Bo sociology that repaying the “super-hours” graduate is a good selection mechanism. SOCIAL researcher at the Central Reserve Dawn said: “not only in the strict implementation of an elimination mechanism for graduate students, undergraduate students should be engaged in out of the system; otherwise, can not improve the quality of higher education.”

Data show that the enrollment expansion years, our graduate students increased by 100 million people, over the previous year to reach 140.49 million, 53.4 million people this year, graduate enrollment plan.

Now the students to go abroad even after more than 90 to 80 after some students relatively favorable domestic living conditions, such students to Japan where sometimes people find it difficult to adapt to the school house presented in order to do to prepare to adapt to various on Mentality, not to study “enjoy.” If it is difficult to adapt, can after Japan school students and teachers through communication and coordination to transfer an estate agent, house.

Students directly enroll in universities abroad, usually have their own quarters. Such applications usually be arranged by the school accommodation. Can not provide dormitories for the college admissions applicants, on behalf of an estate agent can be introduced by Japan.

Recommended the students first went to Japan the first half to try to choose the school introduced a year living in the quarters. Because the source of such quarters is relatively neat (mostly students), more security, but also can reduce the cost of living. After living in Japan is gradually adapt to the option of living in rented houses. Is not responsible for the introduction of individual quarters of the school, may entrust the domestic education agents introduced.

According to the Government of Japan Student Services Organization JASSO Survey: More than two-thirds of students in the students live in private houses. A point worth noting is that the New Deal to study in Japan, “300 000 students received program,” the more important point is that expansion of student dormitories, some students received first-class large-scale institutions also began a large part of the government budget for students additional quarters.

TIPS: Japanese houses can be divided into the following categories

1. Where schools Laos: a special dormitory for foreign students, there are only to introduce private quarters.

2. Students Laos: the state or private organizations operating in Laos, though a small but students also have some. Self-contained, low cost, but the number of people into the ranks and into the residence qualifications are constrained.

3. Private quarters of the species: 1) General housing: usually the second floor of collective housing. Kitchen, bathroom shared or dedicated, most no bathroom. 2) apartment: three floors above the collective housing. In addition to the room but also have kitchen, toilet and bathroom. The higher floors, rent would be more expensive.

4. Family living: Most European countries will adopt this form of study abroad is to the Japanese home, as a member of the family live together in the form. In order to understand Japanese culture and habits for many people, but received very few families.

Baggage problem: to study in Japan Luggage list

1. Passport.

2. Entry Permit (Admission Notice).

3. Certificate of Eligibility Certificate (attached to the passport page).

4. Amount in cash (Japanese yen): As tuition fees, accommodation before the visit will usually be required to be remitted to the designated account. Therefore, only students with certain living expenses. But can not carry too much cash. Can also apply for credit cards in China to Japan and use.

5. One or two-inch color photo several sheets: The Japanese take pictures costs are usually higher.

6. Personal seal: Japan is different from the West, the seal effect than “personal signature”, after the students to Japan to open personal bank accounts, enrolled, receive scholarships, applicants need to use the wage and so seal. It is better to take a personal seal, open style, but best not to use illegible fonts.

7. Academic certificates and professional qualifications.

8. Electronic Dictionary

9. Reference: Related studies or professional.

10. Grammar books (for Japanese elementary students the best grammar books available in Chinese). Checked baggage: clothes (suits are installing a set of the best equipment, when worn on formal occasions), there is no need to carry too much clothing.

11. A small amount of drugs (mainly cold, diarrhea and other emergency medicine): But not too much traffic, the Japanese customs, the officials will be asked this question.

Many people experience employment difficulties, the problem will be considered on their own body. Just out of school, especially college students, once the process of looking for work will be so blocked. For example they will consider themselves inadequate, and others, worse than them so. These are short in their responsibilities. The success of our education, then followed by a return attributed. In fact, these problems are not just our own problems, it is revealed that our education problems. We are only as an educational end, “carrier“, give a direct reflection and presented to them.

Imagine, a man came out from the university, and the face of society is not only confused, but one immediately into the community that a lack of its own, it really is Whose failure? To be sure, this is definitely not a human tragedy, it is the tragedy of our entire education. Also shows that our education is how people cultivated talents, our education is how to treat and educate their personnel had.

Any personnel, should be to serve the community. Not what the social services people use, he can not survive in society. But our university trained people, not only can not adapt to society, but also serious deviation from the society. Not meet the community and from society, is that our knowledge is “useless”. The nowhere, certainly a direct result of the “powerless.”

In contrast, such as universities in other countries in training personnel and for personnel services, would be much better. Such as the United States, students entered college, vocational school of their education will help them access and understand the job market. Since then, there to help students discover their own personality, interests, in order to learn more targeted. Moreover, most students out of American education is full of confidence. Even the students themselves lack the real ability, they will not consider themselves not work. We will not like it, lack of confidence that “a lack of self” is the leading reason for Employment.

University for four years, should be the school services and guidance to students in four years. But now some of our university who does not seem to focus on the top. They prefer busy with expansion, merger, too busy to upgrade themselves, such as other undergraduate degree. As a result, our students in such circumstances, can get the services and guidance on how to do? They are nothing more than to be “university,” it read class books, class and talk about love. Opportunities for their social contacts, but also entirely self-selection in the next, into the understanding of the error.

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“Poor support” or “nutrient” depends on the family conditions

Mr. Liu’s parents were youth, high school, before Mr. Liu has been living in Xinjiang, it is more deeply appreciate the difficulty of life. Today, Mr. Liu and his wife settled in Shanghai, with the good work, 6-year-old daughter, a rather famous in the Shanghai study of private kindergartens. Usually daughters toys, clothing, food are carefully selected after procurement. Because her daughter likes painting and the piano, Mr. Liu for his daughter reported that the best course of painting classes and piano. As long as the daughter of a harvest, Mr. Liu that the pay is worth it, after all, kids do not want to lose at the starting line.

Mr. Liu believes that the child “poor support” or “nutrient” depends on family circumstances. If the living conditions of the relatively favorable, may choose to give their children a better material, especially in education. Mr. Liu believes that “eutrophication” is not the spoiled daughter, but her graceful train, and virtuous character, so she better be well-informed, healthy, beautiful children.

In the new semester, Mr. Liu for his daughter prepared a new canvas, and this is her special want. Now the child gradually enlarged, the slightest reduction in degrees of life, in your child’s school supplies and living expenses probably 1000-1500 yuan per month.

Conditions regardless of how the family must be “poor support”

Ms. Ho’s son, 11-year-old child to “poor support” and “nutrient” is concerned, she serves always adhere to the “poor support.” Ms Ho was born as a financial planner, when his son had a small instil sense of diligence and thrift, and from life to help his son correct understanding of the practice of money. In addition, she serves still more to the son of some advocates of education and suffer setbacks in education, Ms. Ho believe that “poor support” will make children better understand the struggle to save, that will make the child benefit for life. Immediately to school, and she serves as the son of a piggy bank is prepared. After school, she serves the children’s pocket money was 50 yuan per month, in the children’s school supplies and living expense claims Miss Fang Mianhe practical, applicable and will not pursue the brand and the “most expensive.”

Consider the following students complain about this professor’s words:

Professor Green certainly threw us a curve today. Half the questions were from parts of the book he told us to read but he never covered them in class. Of course, most of us didn’t bother to read the stuff, so we really got caught.

Professor Green, it can be really surprised us. Half of the exam is he wants us to look at the contents of that book, but he never talked about in class. Most of us have not taken the time to see that stuff, so we were caught.

And “throw sb. A curve” means the same phrase is “throw sb. For a loop”, meaning “to cause someone surprise and annoyance.” The following example is a girl complaining about her boyfriend’s words:

Bill told me he couldn’t take me out last night because he had to study for a big exam. So it threw me for a loop when I saw him walking into the movie theater with that stupid girl who sits next to him in biology class .