From face to face to back to back

The recent emergence of a very popular line of scripts, from the blog to the micro-Bo, from the Forum to sns can be seen everywhere, entitled “Like a relationship, like the ancients,” the scripts, the scripts is so fire may be due to the upcoming Tanabata , of course, I think the reason is that more and more people began to see Duo’s, the modern changes in the relations between the not so simple and even some Fuza, people had so Dian Zhi Jian Shao trust, these in fact lack communication result.
Scientific and technological progress, phone, mobile phones, computers and other communication tools is almost over our world. When you encounter something new you want to share with friends, you can choose to call, send messages, qq, or even writing an email can be these things and tell your friends. The diversity of modern communication, but also led to exchanges between people face to face rapid decline. A common phenomenon is that we prefer, or by email exchange of qq and close colleagues, unwilling to directly face to face to speak up.
Not just in the workplace, face to face between family members began to gradually reduce communication.
I remember the early years, after dinner at home, on a family sitting together, chat, tell jokes, and then each went to bed. Today, the general got home from work, eating dinner, watching television watching TV, playing computer playing computer, the family rarely speak, have their own things to do, usually only a matter of time before said a few words. Communication between family members, the frequency and depth are beginning to gradually become smaller, which leads to changes in the relations between family members are getting cold, misunderstanding arises when.
“My dad coming home, I entered the bedroom, eating homework I have to stay in my room, I am waiting for him to work and then go to school, basically you can not talk the day down.” Such as the strange landlord, tenant-based Life is Xiaobin and reflection between his father, according to the words of Xiaobin “owe respect and ice.” “Speak to them very tired, not to say that less than one.” Impression in Xiaobin, the exchange between him and his father seems to have always been less than three sentences begin “lively” the.

Family education among the most serious problem currently exists, is the lack of communication. Parents always think their children do not listen, do not know the parents of a painstaking, but the child does, he feels his parents can not stand the standpoint of the problem, we know that the command style and tone to speak for itself. In fact, communication between parents and children should be for both sides an equal position. Parents should not win their children the right to speak in communication should be allowed to tell their children enjoy the view, this is effective communication. In a dialogue, the parents have always dominated, deprived of the rights of the child to speak, which will lead to rebellious thoughts in the child, there are worse still, would make a child’s life in the future, do not know how to properly express their views, resulting in feelings of depression.
Of course, communication between parents and children is based on trust, if the parents have been faced with skepticism to a child, then the communication must be a failure. Parents must show as much as possible their sincere willingness to communicate with their children, to let the children of the parents, “all you know, without reserve.”
Scientific and technological advances make communication diversity, we should make full use of a wide range of communication tools that allow communication between parents and children become more efficient, so that parents and children more confidence to be effective in family education .


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Whatever the reason, can not accept

This year’s summer school in Beijing focused on the part of a child off a little special, they were their own parents, “even fool with coax” and taken to Peking University Third Hospital, test chamber to detect children’s intelligence quotient. The report also said that children in the summer, particularly hot IQ tests are generally required to advance a month or longer appointment. Under normal circumstances, the parents certainly would not doubt the intelligence of their children, then in the end so popular then why the IQ test?

According to the school teacher surnamed Guo description: “Because the school is the district focus on school leadership in the school’s ranking in the area very seriously, the teacher Appraising (impact bonuses, etc.) was very strict, class pass rate 100%, excellent rate of more than 30%, and the class average must be maintained in the overall ranking of the first third of the region. and the school provides an IQ below 70 students, evaluation results will not participate in class. So, do not less academic ranking in class after the teacher asked parents are taking advantage of the summer to test the child’s IQ. one hand, can improve the class evaluation, it can also cure the “illness”, the weak link for the children to make up classes . ”

Just a test, they put people into 369 and so on, the focus of school, find good jobs, promotions jobs, have children, emigrating … all by its decision, it changed people’s life trajectories, and even control people’s life and death, it really makes me feel fantastic. The above news IQ test, more is to make me feel very helpless.

Parents and teachers know that no matter how the results of IQ tests, the child’s self-esteem will be a certain degree of damage. If the test results is low, then the child will no doubt depression, doubt yourself, or even get depression, and if test results normal, because the child still challenged by parents and teachers lack the confidence caused. This test, the child is almost no good profits.

Let’s look at the reasons for parents with children IQ test is required because of the teacher, the teachers it is also the pressure forced the school. The school then was forced to the interests of society. Can be said that this IQ test, its starting point is to pursue interests that it is itself a problem. More horror is in this case, the biggest victims – children, but almost no voice, is forced to live. Therefore, this test is an oppression not only for children, parents and teachers the school is subject to the interests of society of oppression.

According to the article reports, China’s Protection of Minors Act, Article stipulates that the state according to characteristics of physical and mental development of minors to give special priority to the protection, safeguard the legitimate rights and interests of minors are not violated. That is, when the children’s interests with the interests of the community, education, conflict of interest when the interests of the child should be given priority. Therefore, from a legal way to run, because the interests of education to conduct IQ tests with children is illegal.

Children of poor academic performance, that is, IQ Questions? IQ is only part of the reason, the key is education. The current medical research showed that children under 4 years old, in the mental development of 50% of the adjustment of space; 4 years -8 years be adjusted to 30%; 8 years old -18 years old 20%, IQ to a large extent both with adjustment space. The achievement of good and bad, including a number of factors, the human brain development is important, but the study habits, interest in learning and so the change can have implications for academic achievement. Can be adjusted with a measured IQ would be affected by many factors of a learning value, which after all are not convincing.

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“Good family” breeds good character of the three factors of the child

You must want the child to have a good personality, then, how the character is formed? As parents in shaping their children to pay attention to what character?

“The family is create a human character factory”, family environment for children to form character particularly important role. To have a good character kids, parents should give children to create a warm and harmonious home.

1. Family atmosphere:

Harmony, mutual respect, mutual understanding and mutual support of family atmosphere, the character of the children have a positive effect. On the contrary, the parents quarrel, misunderstanding, suspicion or relationship breakdown (parents divorced or deceased parents) of family, juvenile delinquency rate.

2. Family Structure:

Some studies show that children from two generations of families in curiosity, persistence, partner prestige, and human relations and the attitude of labor is better than children from three generations of families.

This is mainly families with three generations of spoiled children and other factors.

3. The status of children in the family:

The special status of child at home, easier for them to form a self-willed, not concern for others, selfishness and other bad behavior. But if a conscious guide correctly, but also enable them to form a respect teachers, care partner, not picky eaters, labor and other good character.

In addition, parents education, occupation, family economic status has some impact on the child character


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The Cultivation and return the 307 to be “super-hours” post-graduate and doctoral students

Huazhong University of Science report in 2010 of undergraduate enrollment; and return the school to be 307 master’s and doctoral news shocked the newly entering the university’s students.

August 30, published online graduate school, will be “super-hours” dealing with graduate students to drop out. Required, Master’s longest not more than four years of study, the doctoral student a maximum of 8 years.

It is understood that the relevant departments are to report on specific comments to be drop-outs, the students eventually drop out of the decision by the principal of the school session. Students would have objections if they drop out, can appeal.

Although the number of people to be repaying not uncommon, but compared with the total number of graduate schools, the ratio is not high. End of last year’s statistics show that 17,694 people graduate school there; this calculation, to be cleaned up and returned only 1.7% of graduate students.

The school provides at least a year or more school drop-out of graduate school transcripts sent. Repaying the “Super Hours” graduate student initiatives in the lead yesterday in the new shock. Dr new Little Deng said the teacher had informed during the press conference, “This is a lesson, reading would of course make an effort.”

Three students from the University of Farmers Bo sociology that repaying the “super-hours” graduate is a good selection mechanism. SOCIAL researcher at the Central Reserve Dawn said: “not only in the strict implementation of an elimination mechanism for graduate students, undergraduate students should be engaged in out of the system; otherwise, can not improve the quality of higher education.”

Data show that the enrollment expansion years, our graduate students increased by 100 million people, over the previous year to reach 140.49 million, 53.4 million people this year, graduate enrollment plan.

School opens argument: a child of the “poor support” or “nutrient”?

When every school, parents will inevitably spend a sum of purchase cost of school supplies for children. With the improvement of living standards, parents in this area of expenditure is also growing, according to reports, some parents on school shopping list as high as 10,000 yuan, including computers, cell phones, MP3 and other items. Children in the end is the “poor support” or “nutrient”? I interviewed several parents and experts, asking them about their views.

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“Poor support” or “nutrient” depends on the family conditions

Mr. Liu’s parents were youth, high school, before Mr. Liu has been living in Xinjiang, it is more deeply appreciate the difficulty of life. Today, Mr. Liu and his wife settled in Shanghai, with the good work, 6-year-old daughter, a rather famous in the Shanghai study of private kindergartens. Usually daughters toys, clothing, food are carefully selected after procurement. Because her daughter likes painting and the piano, Mr. Liu for his daughter reported that the best course of painting classes and piano. As long as the daughter of a harvest, Mr. Liu that the pay is worth it, after all, kids do not want to lose at the starting line.

Mr. Liu believes that the child “poor support” or “nutrient” depends on family circumstances. If the living conditions of the relatively favorable, may choose to give their children a better material, especially in education. Mr. Liu believes that “eutrophication” is not the spoiled daughter, but her graceful train, and virtuous character, so she better be well-informed, healthy, beautiful children.

In the new semester, Mr. Liu for his daughter prepared a new canvas, and this is her special want. Now the child gradually enlarged, the slightest reduction in degrees of life, in your child’s school supplies and living expenses probably 1000-1500 yuan per month.

Conditions regardless of how the family must be “poor support”

Ms. Ho’s son, 11-year-old child to “poor support” and “nutrient” is concerned, she serves always adhere to the “poor support.” Ms Ho was born as a financial planner, when his son had a small instil sense of diligence and thrift, and from life to help his son correct understanding of the practice of money. In addition, she serves still more to the son of some advocates of education and suffer setbacks in education, Ms. Ho believe that “poor support” will make children better understand the struggle to save, that will make the child benefit for life. Immediately to school, and she serves as the son of a piggy bank is prepared. After school, she serves the children’s pocket money was 50 yuan per month, in the children’s school supplies and living expense claims Miss Fang Mianhe practical, applicable and will not pursue the brand and the “most expensive.”

Oxford University: Chinese students lack the ability to challenge the Professor

Key point

Current University of Chinese universities and world-class gap, mainly in the quality of construction. In the past 20-30 years, Chinese universities pay more attention to the expansion of the number of students, now to pay attention to quality time.

- Stanford University President John – Hannes

Interdisciplinary breadth of knowledge, critical thinking ability is the most lacking in students.

- Yale University President Richard – Levin

Chinese students are very easy and students in other countries to win the competition. However, they lack a little challenge to the capacity of Professor of view, the need to improve.

- Oxford University Andrew – Hamilton

2 to 4 May, the fourth Chinese-Foreign University Presidents Forum held in Nanjing. Yale, Oxford, Stanford, Peking University, Tsinghua University, People’s Congress … … from nine countries and mainland China and Hong Kong and Macao are more than 150 famous Nanjing University recently brought together to discuss the way the University of personnel training.

Although China has the world’s largest higher education, but how to improve the quality of personnel training, solve the problems of university development difficulties remain formidable.

Short board: Students do not want to challenge authority

Strategy: make more active researchers

Andrew Hamilton of Oxford University said that the Chinese are very good students, involved in a number of world-class research. The results from the education, the East-West differences are not large. However, the Western university students pay more attention to the academic self-confidence, encourage students to challenge the professor. Chinese students are often reluctant to challenge academic authority, express different views, not willing to carry out independent creative thinking. “We encourage Chinese students to do more active researchers and challenger, rather than passive recipients and the listener.” He said.

Hamilton talked about, now a total of 750 Chinese students studying in Oxford. “Chinese students are very powerful. In my research of the chemical field, China is very easy for students and other students in the competition to win. However, I feel a little challenge to teach them Qianque view the capabilities, needs improvement.”

For 4 times to participate in Chinese-Foreign University Presidents Forum, Yale University President Richard Levin is well aware of the Chinese University. He said the U.S. education model emphasizes the interactive discussion, take the initiative to argument, challenge each other to challenge professors, to challenge authority, rather than passive acceptance. They do not require students to memorize, but to solve the problem. “We should not head to the students filled the furniture, but to teach them ways to help them take a framework for their own to design creative solutions.”

In Lawrence J. Lau Chinese University of Hong Kong seems, China, Japan, Korea and other East Asian countries, is a long tradition of respect for teachers, students respect for authority, not the class object to the teaching point of view, 100 percent believe the teacher. In this academic atmosphere, where is innovation? “Einstein, Newton’s point of view, if not doubt, to challenge authority, there will not be innovation.” Said Lawrence J. Lau, subject to the impact of cultural differences, the Chinese University of cultivating creative talent is more difficult than in the West. “If a student from kindergarten to primary to secondary school teachers are afraid to question, how can you expect him to go to university teachers to question and challenge authority?”

Short board: professional time early elections

Strategy: to foster interdisciplinary capacity

Stanford University 约翰汉尼斯 said that if the Chinese University to give the current “prick” then, in addition to fewer Chinese students to discuss, question less, fewer questions, the other is the time for students to choose a professional too early. Students 18 years old, do not know the university curriculum, much less interested at this time let their choice of profession, and to instill the concept of employment, limit their horizons. “In my view, undergraduate education is not to allow students to get first job, but the second and third job, let him in the next 20 years to 30 years, the foundation of the entire life. Of course, there are no few vocational skills to students of vocational schools for the purpose, which is another matter. ”

Richard Levin, said: “The breadth of knowledge across disciplines, critical thinking ability is the most lacking in students.” In his view, special knowledge of education generally refers to the age of 18 selected professional, not to learn from other courses, while general education is different. American undergraduate general education is that the first two years students can try a variety of subjects, after two years and then selecting professional learning. “Whether a politician or a business leader, need to economics, law, philosophy, psychology and other aspects of knowledge, rather than the single subject of knowledge.”

Lawrence J. Lau believes that the age of 18 should allow students to decide what to read, professional, what kind of future work, really hard. Many students, parents, professional vague, such as some of the medical students listen to the proposed election results see the blood going to faint. Universities should establish flexible mechanisms, so that students can change the profession, students should choose a favorite thing to do, If you do something like that would be a pleasure, but parents should fully respect the child.

Different from the past, the forum also invited four well-known enterprises. Microsoft chief research and strategy officer 科瑞格蒙迪 that both liberal arts students or science students, will eventually need to go and around the world, dealing with people in different scientific fields. In this process, cross-disciplinary capabilities and ability to cooperate is very important.

Short board: heavy weight quality not quantity

Strategy: do something but

Building a world-class university higher education sector in China has been the focus of attention. China is in the end there is no world-class universities? Compared with world-class university, where is the gap between Chinese universities? In this regard, 约翰汉尼斯 said the current world-class Chinese universities and between universities, mainly in the quality of construction. In the past 20-30 years, Chinese universities pay more attention to the expansion of the number of students, now to pay attention to quality time. Only a few universities in the world can become a top university in China to build world-class universities, about 20 years is fast, slow is 50 years.

According to him, in the 20th century, when the 50’s, not the world-renowned Stanford University, and after 20 years it has been among the list of world-class universities, mainly for three reasons, first, make full use of government resources and support; Second, focus on the development engineering, computer, software and medicine and other disciplines; third is to build Silicon Valley, and the special ties between enterprises. Hannis emphasized that the process towards world-class university, the Stanford University to the one important principle, that is, “Dos and Don’ts.” Over the past school nurses do, architecture and so on, but can not achieve first-class level, simply close down and focus on subjects to do their own advantages. “In this connection, it might be worthwhile for reference to the Chinese University.”

Self-made breakfast, take a bath not exceed five minutes, the students host “the Code”

Students on-site to talk about the pros and cons of a host family.

“To produce their own breakfast in the room could not eat after 21:00 can not access, can not download video, each time taking a bath no more than five minutes after her bath clean, the week the need to wash clothes on fixed position … … ”

In November of this year by the Australian Embassy in Beijing invited journalists in Australia, South Australia, Victoria, Queensland and Canberra area schools were visited to understand the local Chinese students to study and life. This is the excerpt of Australia’s Canberra region a home stay hanging in the international student room doors on the “stay the Code” in some of the elements.

Accommodation in Australia, many families throughout the city and international students have this kind of “three-point” and accept the seemingly harsh conditions of real life into the first step in studying in Australia.

Assessment produced a host family

Now go to secondary school students in Australia, an increasing number of Australian schools to provide boarding schools, and most of the students are living in a local host families. The basic needs of these students were deeply touched the hearts of the hearts of the parents. Reporter learned visited Australia in all states to accept international students, host families and management methods vary.

South Australia as the director of Office of International Education, Ms. Marilyn Sleath said in an interview, all the host families choose a uniform examination by the government, the International Education Office will arrange a host family group to the airport. The Queensland Department of International Education and Training Ms Sonia Uranish director said that although the state government there is no uniform to help students choose a host family, but it will regularly organize the “best host families,” the selection. Australia’s capital Canberra, the situation is rather special, because here the number of international students only a few hundred people, one for each host family, are government-related educational institutions, specialized archives, as well as dedicated staff will be responsible for the Chinese reception, answering student hotline to help students solve problems encountered in daily life.

Accommodation not included internet access and Hua Fei

In Australia, the cost of host families in different areas according to a slightly different charges, weekly accommodation costs of the family between 180 ~ 230 Australian dollars. These costs typically include the cost of three meals a day, laundry fees, utility charges and the use of residential household television and other facilities, but costs do not include Internet access and telephone charges. In Australia the cost of Internet access is more expensive, students and landlords to discuss the price. But if pupils through the purchase of a dedicated international phone cards to make calls, so that international telephone calls in Australia only need to pay the cost of local calls are generally 0.4 ~ 0.8 AUD / time.

Do not change the landlord’s liking

And student exchanges, the reporter also found that the beginning for these students to Australia, when you live in and host families are more or less ran into some problems. Some one that houses the Convention against some hard to accept, and even directly calling for a host family. Has been to Australia three years of Chen filed his request for a change start a host family matter, and some regret. He said that now in retrospect, in fact, at that time as a host family to make such demands, it is because they really as a family to demand, because they are also so many demands of their own children.

For example, Australia, many families do not prepare breakfast for their children, the children will be their own kitchen, some raw materials used to make some sandwiches and other simple foods brought to school; Australia is a dry country, the Government will give every family will be provided the hourglass, so that we can take to control the hourglass on the bathroom bath time; in extremely dry time, it can not watering gardens, garden plants can only allow them to wither. Understanding of these cultural backgrounds, many of the students discovered that was not his own encounters a harsh landlord, but their own could not very well integrated into the local culture in Australia. Students should be able to learn not only language, more is how to make themselves more open, better at communication, better understanding, tolerance, acceptance of different cultures.

Encountered composure whenever one wanted to change things that the landlord is not good, many issues are resolved in the exchange. As in the Canberra region, year, international students stay at the family’s request request a replacement less than 10%. Of course, if really met black-hearted landlords, students must learn to schools, a specialized agency of state government complaints.

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