No intention of following their parents whom these acts are, and they hurt a child’s self-confidence, but once the parents changed the attitude towards children, their confidence will be restored soon. While the world’s parents want their children to be strong self-confidence, but some of their behavior tends to hurt the children’s self-confidence.Foreign experts raised the issue in the education of their children, 5 parents common problem:
(1) endless references to the child did wrong. Such parents are always looking for the child’s error, and then keep reminding them. This is not the slightest benefit of the child to build confidence.
(2) to give him the nicknames. Called the children “little man”, “big ears” or “little fat”, so that will not only undermine the child’s self-esteem, and not conducive to a positive image of foster parents.
(3) indulge in criticism of the child. Heard criticism of the children the more they try to do other things to avoid the greater the likelihood. ”You’re simply not in sports,” “This is the third time you make such mistakes, and I doubt that you will never have sense of responsibility”, so will bring great harm to the child.
(4) endorsement for the child, rather than let the children express their own unique way.Only make them doubt their own, lose confidence. Parents for children to express, is equal to convey to them a message: I can speak accurately than you, because you’re too young to know how to express.
(5) The front of the children feelings about them. Children will think: “My God, they did in front of me I casually talk with others, as if I’m not here, nothing is.” Does not matter if the parents feel that their kids, their own will be more like that.
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